Pandemic pushes kids’
mental health issues to forefront

Suzanne Krumpelman, counselor at St. Joseph School in Fayetteville, Ark., talked to first graders about friendship Feb. 9, 2022. (CNS photo by Travis McAfee, Arkansas Catholic)

By Aprille Hanson Spivey

FAYETTEVILLE, Ark. — Off and on, since the COVID-19 pandemic began and in-person instruction resumed, St. Joseph School counselor Suzanne Krumpelman in Fayetteville has spoken to students to gauge how they are coping.

During one informal survey, Krumpelman asked how many students know someone who has died from COVID-19 or become gravely ill.

“Almost every single one of the kids raised their hand,” she said. “And you know we just don’t think about it. There are kids who lost grandparents, uncles, cousins, friends who were significant in their life. They are dealing with a lot of other difficult things. … Every child has been impacted by this pandemic in one way or another.”

In December, U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy issued a grim advisory regarding the mental health of youth.

While there was a mental health crisis among children before the pandemic shut down the world, the fact one in five children ages 3-17 are having a mental, developmental, emotional or behavioral disorder, the isolation, fear and uncertainty has magnified the problem.

“I think that’s where we all want people to be: ‘The kids are great, they are fine.’ They probably seem that way, but they are not. You have to dig a little deeper,” Krumpelman said.

According to a September report from the Children’s Hospital Association, there was a 45% higher rate of reported self-injury and suicide cases in children ages 5-17 in the first half of 2021 than in the same period in 2019. There also was a 14% increase in mental health emergencies in the same age group in the first two quarters of 2021 compared to 2019.

“I think for sure parents need to be keeping an eye on their kids. The stress level is very, very high for kids right now,” Krumpelman told the Arkansas Catholic, newspaper of the Diocese of Little Rock.

“I have had to work with more kids than I ever had in two years that are having panic attacks for the first time. … Children, they just kind of survive the moment and go along with the moment,” she said, “and it takes a little bit of time for the aftereffects to happen.”

While adults may have processed why quarantining was necessary, younger children may not have. Suddenly, they were not allowed to see friends, go to school, church or anywhere for fear of catching a potentially deadly virus, along with wearing masks and taking other safety precautions. There was no longer a routine.

Msgr. Jack Harris, pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Morrilton, Arkansas, and a trained crisis counselor, said the biggest threat to mental health he’s seen in his students at the parish school is isolation and loneliness stemming from virtual learning and quarantining.

“School is a traumatic thing, to begin with; it’s hard. It really is; the demands, the requirements are hard to meet. If you are having trouble with that, it’s a trauma,” he said. “These things can really create difficulty. Add that to trying to handle that on your own or virtually.”

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention characterize anxiety in children as not outgrowing certain fears or worries or when those worries “interfere with school, home or play activities.”

Persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness can indicate depression. Other indicators include not wanting to do fun activities, changes in eating or sleep patterns, energy level changes from tired to restless, difficulty paying attention, feelings of guilt, uselessness or worthlessness, and self-injury or self-destructive behaviors.

Krumpelman said there are some signs that may not be as obvious to determine if a child is suffering from anxiety, depending on their age.

“The little ones, a lot of times they are just really active, sometimes it looks like ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder). They are quick to get angry; they are irritable,” she said.

Other signs for younger children could be a hard time concentrating, having dreams or nightmares, wanting to sleep with their parents at night, being clingy, overreacting or obsessively crying over things, stomach aches and making frequent trips to the school nurse.

“Just needing to go to the bathroom a lot in class. That’s their way of getting out of a situation” that might be making them anxious, Krumpelman said.

Older children and teenagers may also experience those things, but older ones typically exhibit constant worrying and extremes — sleeping too much or too little, trouble concentrating, spending too much time with others or always wanting to be alone and fighting about things they haven’t before.

” ‘What if this happens, what if that happens.’ They might start worrying about their family, Mom or Dad out in the (bad) weather that wouldn’t (usually) be a huge concern for them and all of the sudden they’re worried about things like that,” Krumpelman said.

Being overly critical of themselves, saying things like, “Oh, I can’t do anything right, nobody likes me” can be an indicator, she added.

Though each child is different, Krumpelman said, in her experience boys do not tend to talk about their feelings but act out more with negative behaviors.

“Girls will tell you a little bit more. But this is not something kids can put into words,” she said.

Krumpelman suggests parents try to talk to their children, but they may not be open to sharing.

At that point, reach out to teachers or other adults in their life to see if they have noticed changes, she suggested. If a pattern of behavior continues for weeks or things get worse, especially with self-harm or talk of suicide, a counselor needs to get involved.

From a pastoral standpoint, it’s about being present. Msgr. Harris greets students as they arrive at school, asking about a canceled game or activity, a hard test or any challenge they might be facing.

“Being out there and doing that is very important. That kind of an informal being on their turf, showing up there when you can be somewhere else, but you’re not,” he said.

Schools can also provide resources to parents. In the fall of 2021, Our Lady of the Holy Souls School in Little Rock hosted a two-night viewing of the 2017 documentary “Angst” about anxiety and a panel discussion. The school has seen “heightened levels of kids that are talking about self-harm” and struggles going back to campus after virtual learning, said principal Amber Bagby.

“I just feel like trauma is trauma no matter where you are. It definitely presents itself differently than some of the public schools I was in, but the feelings are all the same,” Bagby said. “There’s a misconception I think a lot of people have with our private schools that our babies are free of some of that stuff.”

“I think we’re up against a little bit of that stigma of ‘I’m having anxiety or a panic attack, I must be the only person.’ It’s important for kids to know (that) everyone is suffering right now,” Krumpelman said.

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  1. says: Dr.Cajetan Coelho

    Health is wealth. Life is a precious gift. Children are the future pillars of Planet Earth, our common home.

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